COUPLES THERAPY

Your styles of conflict may be different: some partners fight a lot, some avoid conflict and yet others are able to talk things out without ever raising their voice. Your partnership may be tested by the discrepant ways you show or don't want to show affection and intimacy. You might have realized that you have mismatched values. Perhaps you just found out that your partner is neurodiverse leading you to wonder if your marriage can prevail in ways that don't lead to emotional abandonment and resentment. 

Whatever the point of contention may be, I can help you heal those wounds and guide you forward in your relationship. I will aim at making you a more emotionally intelligent couple who is better able to understand, honor and respect each other and the relationship. The likelihood of getting divorced is so high that it makes sense for all married couples to invest into making their marriages stronger before contempt for one another sets in too deep.

Even a relationship built on good foundations can fail when the partners start taking each other for granted. Just know that better communication techniques alone will not save your partnership. They may alleviate some stress but will most likely not be enough to save your relationship. Understanding the core difference that is causing the conflict between you and learning how to live with it in respectful and honorable ways will.